Solo vacation to Rhodes – part 1

Hello everyone,

I am back with a new blog. I am sorry that it took me so long but the vacation blog is finally here. It will be in two parts otherwise the blog is way too big. Part 2 will be here soon!

17th June

17th June the day I went on vacation but more important my 25th birthday! So there was double excitement. I was very happy to go on vacation by myself but also a little bit anxious. I booked the vacation by myself, the parking at the airport and my transfer in Rhodes. The only thing that went through my mind was: Did I forget something? You have to check yourself but everything turned out great.

So I drove to Eindhoven Airport and parked my car there. I paid 80 euros to park my car there for 7 days. It was a 5 minute walk from my car to the airport. I was a little bit too early at the airport so I had to wait for like 15 minutes and than my flight appeared on the screen. I went to the gate and everything went fast. I guess I was lucky because there is a huge staff problem at the airports right now. I had to wait like 2 hours and than my flight took off 🙂

I arrived in Rhodes 🙂 I got my suitcase fast and went to the transfer. The transfer took me to my hotel. The hotel I stayed in was Nafsika hotel. Before I went there I asked for a room with sea view and I got a room with sea view 🙂 It is a hotel run by a family. They were so nice and genuine! The hotel was at the beach, 1 minute from bar street, and a 10 minute walk to the new city but also the old city. I had a one person bedroom with a shower and a balcony. It was great.

So the first thing I did when I went to discover Rhodes is buying myself a cake because I am the birthday girl! I got an oreo cake and a cake with cream. They were tasty and I was shook by the price. The guy said 3 euro. I am not complaining tho. After that I took my cakes back to the hotel and went shopping. Rhodes has like a lot of shops. Zara, Bershka, Stradivarius, Sephora, Starbucks etc. The old town has many greek shops. Lots of jewelry, bags, clothes etc. Rhodes has everything! I also went to Kos a couple of times before and you had like the greek shops there but not the Zara, Bershka etc. The last time I was there they were building a mall with those shops so maybe they finally have it now.

I went eating at TAMAM. And this place was like heaven. I am very mad at myself that I didn’t take a good picture of how the restaurant looked because it was very nice with a lot of plants for decoration. So I ordered a seafood pasta and a Rosé. Rosé is my bae 🙂 This was so good. I saw them at TripAdvisor and there were only good reviews there. I must say the price you pay is worth it! The owner and staff are very nice and you feel welcome there. I told them that it was my birthday and they sang for me and brought me a dessert from the house.

I went to the beach and just enjoyed the view. I called my grandma to let her see the view and she was amazed. I also went out the first night. I said to myself I am not going to drink a lot because I have an activity tomorrow. So I went to bar street and came by a nice bar with r&b music. I was the first there as I went early but I liked the fact that I could just watch people and there outfits. The first thing that amazed me was that there were a lot of English people. In Kos I almost only saw like dutch people when I went out. So that was a difference. I got some drinks and than a very nice Scottish couple took place at another table next to me. We talked to each other and went to other bars together. The guy asked me what I wanted to drink the whole time that I wasn’t paying attention at the time or how drunk I was getting. Before I got drunk they asked me if they should bring me to my hotel when we were done partying and I was like no that’s not necessary. I can take care of myself. Well… I can tell you guys that they had to take me to my hotel because I couldn’t. I was way too drunk but I had fun 🙂

18th June

The next day I had to wake up early because I had my first activity! I booked all my activities with Get Your Guide. An app you can download on your phone. I think it is the easiest way to do it but you can also book all your tours in Rhodes.

At 9 a clock they picked me up and also picked up some other people. The people who were sitting in front of me at the bus were dutch. So we started talking to each other. The first activity was Seven Springs Waterfall. So there were seven waterfalls like in between mountains. It was definitely not the safest tour I did but one of the most scary ones. You could literally fall from mountains if you did not pay attention where you were walking. If you are afraid of heights I would not recommend this tour and I am afraid of heights 🙂 But I did it anyways so. We saw a lot of waterfalls and made a lot of pictures. The only thing that annoyed me was how little time they gave us. We had an hour to go see all the waterfalls but that wasn’t much at all. Also the instructions there how you have to walk were not very clear. The thing that frustrated me the most was the tunnel you had to get through. For me it wasn’t a problem but for people with a size up they would not+ fit in the tunnel. I think you should mention that when people are booking the activity so they will not faze those problems.

Seven springs waterfall

After that we went to Lindos. The waterfall and Lindos were one activity together. A place in Rhodes which is known by the white houses and the Akropolis. It was so beautiful. Words cannot describe how beautiful it was. We walked in Lindos and went to the Akropolis. It was a long walk and I can tell you guys that my head wasn’t there completely because I had drunk so much the day before. The only thing I ate was a salad at Lindos because I was scared that I would throw up as a was feeling nauxious the whole day. So learn from my mistake and never get drunk the day before an heavy activity. It was also not very responsible of me at all because you are alone on vacation and I was lucky that the people I was with that night were really genuine people. It could have turned out differently.

Akropolis

Lindos

At the evening I went to dinner with the mother and daughter I met at the activity and we also went to a nice cocktail bar together. You might be alone but you meet so many new people there that you won’t feel alone.

Tips and tops?

So this was part one of my solo vacation. In the next part I will talk about a lot of other activities I did such as a Segway Tour and a cooking class. I really had the time of my life at my solo vacation. You can do your own thing. So if you are doubting to go on vacation by yourself: Just do it! You will regret if you don’t. Leave a comment and the follow button is still for free!

Kind regards,

Elignora

First goal of 2023

Hi everyone,

I am back with a new blog & I am so excited. In my last blog I told 3 of my goals for next year. But why would I start next year if I can begin right now?

Learning French

So, I finally did it. I am going to do a French course at LOI starting Sunday the 27th of November. The course is 14 months long, but you can decide if you want to do it quicker. But o my god. I am so happy. Because my study at my work was done and I had nothing to do. I like studying and learning new things so why would I wait. So, I need to finish the course before next year September & I am going to make a plan when all of my study material arrives. Because next year September I want to start with the education French translator/interpreter at ITV Hogeschool (college). This study is 4 years long, but I am really motivated. I am also very motivated to begin. I also want to improve my English & Dutch next year so that I have a lot of knowledge when I start with the education. I am super excited 🙂

The cost of my French course is in total € 660,00. It is very payable and with this course you will be at B2 level of French. The education of 4 years that I want to follow next year is kind of expensive. No, it is actually really expensive. College money is € 4.650,00 per year. This is without books and everything you need. I forgot to mention it is a part time study next to my job. The reason why I am going to choose for this expensive study is because it is the only one you can do part time to become a French Interpreter. There are a lot of part time studies for French Translator but that is not what I want.

It’s actually funny that I am going to study again. First, I wanted to become an Accountant than a Dj. I tried both things, but the accountant thing wasn’t for me. I am glad that I quit the study & my work as a junior assistant accountant. Meanwhile I was working as Junior Assistant Accountant I also learned how to Dj, and I really liked it & I also performed at events. I kind of lost interest due to Corona. I am also at an age that I would rather stay at home than go clubbing with friends. I don’t like it that much anymore so why would I go through with it if I don’t like it to be there. It does not make sense. But maybe if the French thing won’t work out, I will take my words back 🙂 I don’t think that will be the case, but I will keep you guys updated.

Tips & Tops?

Life is getting better and better when you (finally) know what you want in life. I am at the age of 25 right now. For some people that is too late to know what you want. People always have opinions on how you should live your life. They forget one thing. It is YOUR life not theirs. Keep that in mind & follow your dreams even if people don’t believe in your dreams. Please leave a comment & the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

14th November: a day in my life

Hi everyone,

I am back with a new blog and this one will be about how a day in my life looks like. I was thinking to do a week blog but that will be way to big. Enjoy 🙂

Monday 14th of November

Monday the worst day of the week. Not because it was a bad day or something but Monday mostly suck in general. Getting up is hard & just everything is harder at a Monday. So, I woke up very late. I wrote down that I wanted to start with work at 07:30 at the office but that means that I have to have the train from 06:30 which means I have to wake up by 05:30. My body wasn’t ready for that. As soon as my alarm went off, I turned it into snooze mode 🙂 At the office we can decide how late we start. So, I decided to stay in bed a bit longer and was at the office at 08:30.

The Monday at work is actually very chill. I work for the government and help clients who are getting benefits. It is mostly administrative wise, so I don’t meet the clients but that is how I like it. So, we have a lot of different tasks we have to do. At the Monday I am on the call team which means I have to call clients back who have questions about their benefits. Some questions are easy, but some are really hard to answer, and you really have to look good what is going on in their file. I think it is a day you learn a lot of things you didn’t know. The rest of the week I just have to pick up normal tasks, but we have like 200 different tasks we can pick up or more. So, every time we press the button to pick up a task is a surprise.

Me and my co-worker had a break at 12:30 and the both of us didn’t have something to eat which is often the case. While my work is in Eindhoven, we are always looking for new restaurants to eat in our break. We had Turkish food at Mi Amor which is next to my work. We had been there before, and we didn’t want to walk far. We had our break from 12:30 till 13:30. We actually have a half our break but if you stay out longer you have to stay a half our longer that day or another day. You just have to compensate at. Nobody is watching the clock. They do look at the number of tasks you had done at the end of the week. If your production is good, you won’t hear it but if your production is off you definitely will hear it.

I actually stayed a half our longer that day. So, I left at 17:30 and my train to Venlo leaves at 17:49. It’s literally an 8–10-minute walk from work to the train station and city so I always catch the train on time. I got home by 18:40 pm. I didn’t have to cook. I meal prep my food which I would recommend everyone who is living on their own and find it hard to stop ordering. That girl was me, but I changed. And mostly the problem was that I hate to go to the Supermarket due to anxiety. So, I didn’t go to the supermarket very often. And when I came home from work there was no food, so I ordered food. Instead of ordering food I order my groceries at Picnic which really helps me. I plan out what I am going to eat that week and it is also very good for my budget. You have to spend 35 euros on groceries and then they will deliver them. That is my weekly budget to order groceries. Sometimes it isn’t manageable. I drink a lot of coffee. 2 cups in a day and coffee is expensive. I have 2 coffee machines a Nespresso and Dolce Gusto. So, I need different cups for those machines.

After that I watched The Cleaning Lady on HBO max. I am a real a show junky. I literally have Netflix, Amazon Prime, Videoland (NL), Viaplay (NL) & HBO Max. A lot so I watch a lot of shows. I love them. The Cleaning Lady has like a bit the same storyline as the Queen of south, but it is less exciting. In my opinion the acting isn’t really great, but I still watch it.

After that I did my normal evening routine. I do the dishes, I shower, I do my face & body routine, I brush my teeth. I will choose which clothes I will put on the next day. I will put my aroma diffuser on for 6 hours and then when I go to sleep it will smell like lemon grass and I love that. I will set my alarm at 05:30 again but I probably will be at work the next day at 08:30 again…

Tips & Tops?

This is a normal workday in my life, and I love it. Not the Monday in general but I like my work and that is very important. Thanks for reading my blog and I would like it if you left a comment, and the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

2022

Hi everyone,

I am back with a new blog after a long time. I have been so occupied and that is why I didn’t blog or didn’t finish my vacation blog. The vacation blog will still be uploaded but I don’t know when yet. This blog will be about how my year has been because it is nearly the end of the year.

A good year

I must say this year was really a good year. I have accomplished goals and really enjoyed this year. I was studying while I was working. So, we had our test last week and I got 84,80%! To pass the test you should have 75% or more. I was so happy because this give me more time to focus on my other goals. And if you wouldn’t pass it after the resit you had to find a new job. I am happy that I don’t have to search and have some stability. I have learned that’s important in life.

I have learned so much about myself this year. I have learned that I love to learn new things and sightseeing, eating out, solo vacations, solo city trips, concerts etc. I have learned that it is very important to listen to your body. If you need rest, take rest. It’s ok to not be productive everyday as long as you feel good about it.

I also have learned a lot of things I don’t like. Festivals. I haven’t been to a lot this year, but I really don’t like it. It’s big, too many people and too many artists. It is just too much chaos for me. I also don’t like the fact that artists just perform, but don’t really give a show.

I have also learned that it is okay too not like everyone and you don’t have to hang out with people you don’t like. If the vibe is off, you cannot fix that. Sometimes it will be the other way around. That people don’t get you and walk out of your life. I have learned to accept that. I used to be sad about that and in my head a lot. Talking to myself like what did I do wrong? I don’t do that anymore, if you want to leave you can go and I will go on with my life.

I have learned that is totally ok to be single and not searching. I was always on dating sites to meet new people. Why though? There is no rush. I like the fact that I can focus on me and that no man is giving me a headache. I am single in my twenties, and I think that is the most beautiful thing ever. You can find out who you are at your own tempo.

Goals for next year

I have a lot of goals for next year, but I won’t name them all. One of my goals is blogging more often. I want to take blogging more seriously. I think I can reach a lot of people with my blogs if I stay consistent. I really love the fact that strangers are reading my thoughts and following my life and find it interesting. It also helps me getting my head empty.

The next one will be learning French. I am still figuring out where I want to study it because there are a lot of educations, but I want to choose the right one.

The last one of the goals I will name is: saving money. At this moment I have a good job, but I am really bad at saving money. I always was an impulsive buyer. That changed this year. I am always thinking: do I really need it? Most of the times I don’t, and then I don’t buy it. I am still figuring out how much I want (and can) save and what my goal will be.

Tips & tops

So, this was what I learned this year. I really enjoyed this year. Sometimes there were bad times, but you cannot let the negative things overshadow the positive things. Let me know what you think about this blog and the follow button is still for free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

Weekend alone in Maastricht/Amsterdam!

Hello everyone,

So I had three nice weekends in a row. I’ve done a lot of stuff. My blog is about the second weekend. The third weekend I went to Brussel and the first I just had a couple of days off from work and did some fun things. I will also make seperate blogs from those weekends.

Maastricht

At Saturday the 2nd of April I’ve decided to do something on my own. I also decided to get a weekend train subscription to travel. I have a car but have you seen the gas prices? I’ll take the train. So I decided to go to the Bonnefanten Museum in Maastricht. This is an art museum and was an 1 hour travel with the train. It was such a long time ago that I did something like this on my own but I really liked it. It was easy to find. 6 minutes with the bus from the train station. The building was huge and the staff was nice. At the first floor there was art mostly about god. I liked this floor. The museum had a handy thing. You could listen with your phone what the art meant. Not with all the art but a lot. So if you want to go there make sure your telephone is fully charged. There were also papers with information about the artists. The second floor was like Africa/abstract/alternative art. I also liked this floor. The abstract art is really fun because you are looking at a piece and can just make your own fantasy about it. Also the Africa part was amazing. The third floor I didn’t like. This floor was about one artist in particular and his art was noises. Not music but just noise. Didn’t understand much of it but yeah maybe you will. After the museum I decided that I wanted to go eat something. So I took the bus to the city and just looked around what I wanted to eat. First I came by a nice pastry shop and bought myself some macarons and a peach cake. Than I went to an Italian restaurant. The restaurant was small and cozy and the staff was nice. I ordered ravioli a formaggi and had two Rosé there. As dessert I ordered Tiramisu. Everything was so good. Really loved the place. After eating I went home.

Amsterdam

When I came home I still wanted to do something because I was bored. I was thinking what can I do on my own and I got an impulsive idea when I came home by 19.00 pm. I wanted to go to Amsterdam. Just to go out and have fun. So I impulsively booked a hostel there. Didn’t even know where exactly but I booked it. I also booked a ticket for Encore. This is a event. I’ve been there a lot of times before and it is always mostly HipHop music what I like. So I was getting ready, packed all my stuff and asked my mom if she could drop me at the station and she did. When I was in the train I’ve got a meltdown. Amsterdam is two hours away from where I live and my phone battery was low. So I was saying in my head why do I got to be so impulsive all the time. When I came there I had to figure out how to get to my hostel. It was like a 6 min drive with the bus and a 5 minute walk from Amsterdam Bijlmer Arena. I stayed at Via Amsterdam hostel. I liked this hostel so much. So I finally was in my room at the hostel and I immediately start changing clothes for the event. Than some of my roommates came in and started talking to me. They were nice but also the reason that I missed the night bus so I had to get an Uber. The Uber was 36 euro for a 10 – 15 minute drive. I was shook by the price but the Uber driver was handsome. So there was a little compensation there 🙂

My Uber dropped me at Melkweg where the event Encore is and I got inside. I put my jacket in a locker. I noticed that the event was in the small area instead of the big one. But I guess they were trying to save money because of Corona. So I went in the dance area and I thought am I at encore? haha the music was so different. They were playing emotional music. Like emotional songs from Sza, Drake, Justin Bieber… I really needed a drink haha. After that I just went sitting in the hall. And some guys came to talk to me and I wasn’t interested at all and made that very clear. Than some girls came to talk me. They were asking if I was alone and asked me to dance with them so I did. I sometimes think that people are sad that I am alone but I actually like it. So I danced and I noticed that the girls boyfriend was mocking my dance moves and I just ignored it. At that time there was a different dj and this dj was good. I leaved at 4 and took the last night bus to the hostel. I like the fact that I am capable to go out alone but I probably will go to another event the next time. This wasn’t it.

Amsterdam day two

The next day I was back in my hostel and I extended my stay. So instead at leaving at 10 a clock I could leave at 13.00. It was only € 5,- to extend. So that day I got myself ready. I went to Amsterdam city to get some stuff for my family and drank a coffee. After that I went to Ricardo’s and picked up the Surinamese food that I ordered. There was a big problem that day because the train didn’t drive because of a defect. So I booked another night in the hostel, informed my work and took the first train the morning after.

Tips and Tops?

I am trying to do more thing by myself. I’ve stayed home for like 2 years because of Corona and right now I just want to live. Lots of my friends have different priorities so I will not depend on them and just do my own thing. Let me know if you liked this blog and the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind Regards,

Elignora

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First solo vacation!

Hi guys,

I am back with a new blog. I finally did it. I booked my first solo vacation to Rhodos (Greece). I am so excited 🙂

Birthday

My departure day to Rhodos is on my 25th birthday. I don’t celebrate my birthday. Most of the time it is just a few family members who come over. This year I just don’t want to be at home with my birthday. I will buy a cake for myself when I am there to celebrate it with myself 🙂

So I booked my hotel, flight and transfer separate from each other. The price of the flight for 7 days was € 201,-. The hotel was € 255,- including breakfast. I also booked a bigger size of luggage which was € 50,- and I also booked my seats for € 18,-. My transfer will be € 16,-. So in total I spend € 540,-. Yes, I know it is much. I saw some cheaper options but I was just in love with this hotel. This hotel is literally at the beach and in Rhodos City. I didn’t want to go a hostel this time. That is also a cheaper way but maybe next time. I am still figuring out what activities I am going to do there. I don’t want to plan everything beforehand. I did already book a cooking lesson when I am there and that is the only thing yet. I will write a blog about my vacation. I was also thinking about vlogging but I don’t know if that is something for me. Would you guys like a vlog?

Life & the gym

So first off I am doing well. I am at a point in my life that I don’t want negativity in my life anymore. I want people who support me in everything I do. I want people who will never question my ability of achieving my goals. So just real people and that is hard to find these days. I am cutting a lot of people out of my life and I am not scared to have nobody. You can better be alone than with the wrong company.

I am still going to the gym. I had Corona two weeks ago and had a lot of complaints. So the last few weeks I haven’t been as much as I would. I started to focus on what I was eating instead. I already did that but because I was so sick I just couldn’t workout and I still wanted progression. I am still trying to loose weight. So far it is going good. I am eating small portions of healthy food. I don’t skip carbohydrates because you need that. I first did a low carbohydrate diet and it backfired. Gained all my weight back. So I would not recommend that diet. It is effective but just for a short time. I am just eating normal and try to workout 3 times a week. Just remember that if you want to loose weight 20% is gym and 80% is food. So focus on what you eat instead of working out 7 times a week.

Tips and tops?

This was my blog for today. I will let you know the details of the hotel, flight and transfer when my vacation is over. In every blog I write ‘I am trying to blog more regularly’ but sometimes I just don’t have inspiration. I will try to blog every Tuesday. Do not know the time yet but I will let you guys know. If you liked this blog please like and comment and the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

Travel alone?

Hi everyone,

I am back with an other blog and need your opinion about this one. So I would love it if you would leave a comment. To have some interaction with my followers I made a poll. Have fun reading! 🙂

Alone time

You know when it is your time to go out of your comfortzone that’s how I am feeling right now. I always put myself in the second place and sometimes completely forget myself. I am important too. I want to travel alone to a far destination like Jamaica or The Dominican Republic. I was already searching for vacations and what if I just do it? I am not scared but it is a bit weird to travel alone to such a far destination. I also think it is a good way to help me relax and find myself. Lately I just feel like everything is too much for me. I do not want to go on vacations with friends because there will always be problems. You know girls 🙂 I don’t do drama and espescially not on vacation. I just want to live, have fun and make memories.

I am definitely going on vacation this summer. Where I will go is still in debate and I will also blog about it. I also think that I will make a short trip too Brussel next month. I am just not feeling like I am living right now. I work, I eat, I sleep and that on the daily base. I just don’t want this to be an other boring year and just remind myself that I don’t need anyone to have a great time. I just need me and that is enough.

I have watched many youtube videos about people who travel alone a lot. I want to be like them. I just need to find the courage somewhere.

Tips & tops

Did you travel alone somewhere? If you did I would be happy if you leave some tips for me. I am trying to blog more regularly. There will be a blog every Tuesday and Friday at 20.00 pm. If you like this blog leave a comment and the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

Vision board 2023

Hi everyone,

I am back with a new blog. I saw everyone making vision boards so I decided to make one too. I am not creative at all so I just made an vision board in Word & I got all my pictures from Pinterest. So, no paper, no magazines & no scissors. The modern way 🙂

Vision board

I made a an online vision board for this year. This was my first time but I think I did pretty great. I will explain some of the pictures innit. At the end of my blog you will find my vision board. Have a look before you start reading.

Consistency

I put consistency in the middle. I really struggle with that one. I actually always have struggled with that. I like variety a lot and always change hobby’s, what I want to do in life, etc. I might do an ADD test because it would make sense if I have it. I have done so many things when I was a teenager it might shock you: I did ballet, street dance, guitar lessons, break dance lessons, athletics, basketball, one lesson gymnastics & one lesson tennis. Yeah quite a lot. I stopped with fitness in June 2022 and need a new sport but I don’t know what and I actually am kind of lazy.

Debt free

This is one I want to explain. I don’t have major debts at all. The only debts I have are my taxes. In the year 2021 and 2020 I earned too much and got too much healthcare surcharges. So I have to pay that back and I will be done with that this year.

Self care is not a luxury. It’s a necessity.

I always put myself on number two and that is going to change. I try to care more about my health, the way I look, my body. Just everything. Because I deserve it and it also makes me feel good about myself.

Passport

This one is really important to me. Actually all the pictures are haha. I really want to travel a lot this year. Doesn’t matter if it is far or around the corner. While I am young I just need to explore the world. So a lot of solo trips and solo vacations will be planned.

Dj

This is on my vision board but since Corona I didn’t really like it anymore and lost passion I guess. So I want to start over. It’s never too late to start over and see where it will bring me.

Yes, you can

Mindset is everything. If you say I won’t make it, I can assure you won’t make it. You have to believe that you will reach your goal. In the process to become the person you want to be, you we always have people telling you that you won’t reach your goal. Take my advice and do not listen to them. People who underestimate what you are capable of, do not belong in your life. Make sure you have people in your life that support all your goals. It will make your life better.

Tips and tops?

This is my vision board for 2023. Have you a made a vision board already? Did you write down your goals for 2023? Make sure you make the best of it this year. Let me know what you think about this blog and the follow button is still free.

Kind regards,

Elignora

This Saturday…

Hi everyone,

I am back with another blog. So I actually already booked a trip to Brussel this Saturday. It is just a day but still. I think I really need it.

Drowning

Lately I am just feeling like I am drowning. That everything is just too much. I really need some time on my own and work on my mental health. Throughout this whole Covid situation I just got more introverted than I already was. Most days I have to work from home but if I don’t have to go outside I just stay inside the whole day. I do tasks whenever I feel like it. So I really need to work on myself.

At this point of my life I’d rather be alone than with friends. I like positive vibes and I just cannot stand negative people because they will drag you in their slur of negativity. So, yeah I’ d rather be alone and work on myself to be the best part of me.

Planning

I have planned some things to do in Brussel. I have made a reservation at a restaurant I like. I think I also going to visit the park and maybe do my nails at Matombe. Going for some cocktails and just sightseeing. I am not going to sleep there because Sunday I have to study. I am away for just a day but I hope that it makes me feel a little bit better.

Tips and tops?

Next week I will post a blog about my day in Brussel. I will also post a blog about my fitness journey next week. If you liked this blog please leave a comment and the follow button is still free! 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora

How is life? Pt.2

Hi everyone,

It has been a while since my last blog but I am back. I am doing a how is life part 2 because things can change quick.

Social Media Break

In my last how is life part 1 I said I want to create a platform for my dj career well haha. I am accepting that I am not a public person and I don’t want to become one. I like to focus more on blogging something that I actually like. I also noticed that social media can be so bad for your health or I should say mine. Instagram for example is a platform for “perfect” people. Because literally all you see is people with perfect pictures. People are focusing on things that doesn’t matter like followers and likes. Only if you have a business or want to become an influencer those things are important. I also noticed that I was comparing myself with people who have accomplished more than me at the same age. That is a constant thing in my head like am I behind? I am not. Definitely not. We have to work till we are 67 so there is time. I deactivated Instagram and Facebook and I am more at peace now. I was thinking of deleting it. What should I do?

Friends

What people don’t know about me is that I don’t have many friends. As I got older you get to learn who your friends are and who are not your friends. I sometimes have the feeling that people don’t get me. And a lot of times they don’t but that is okay. You don’t have to understand me.

These days I am more on my own. Not really scary. I rather have no company than company that doesn’t understand me. Because who want that?

Tips & Tops

This was a short one for today but let me know what you think about it. I will make another blog on Wednesday. Wish you all a goodnight & the follow button is still free 🙂

Kind regards,

Elignora